teenager
Frosti Fan (Pro-Jesus) asked:


Im asking because im a virgin, and alot of people has told me that it is hard for a teenager to remain a virgin. I dont think it is. Do you think it is and if so, why?

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Comments

I like eyeliner on 19 December, 2008 at 5:26 pm #

…not really.


ordinary.magic on 20 December, 2008 at 7:41 pm #

not reallly.
as long as you have some self dignity and some will power.


Obama For President on 24 December, 2008 at 5:44 am #

No im still a virgin and I find it really easy. Most people let their hormones get the best of them or just won’t say no. I’ve been asked many times and I just say no. If a guy gets really mad then that says to me all he wanted was ***. And I don’t want to be like the kids that say im 12 and pregnant. im 16 years strong


Johnny Bananas on 26 December, 2008 at 3:18 am #

If you can control your hormones, then you shouldn’t worry. And don’t be easy for guys to get to you. Guys can easily persuade or work their way into your pants. Be smart and listen to your parents. A lot of teens lose their virginity young because of uncontrollable hormones.


Ashley on 26 December, 2008 at 9:41 pm #

if you dont have *** its not that hard but as soon as you do your going to want more you really will then you will also think its ok to have *** with every bf, so if you stay a virgin and dont let ppl presser you into having *** then its not that bad. the guy that i lost my virginity to forced me to do it and i regret it i wish i would have saved myself.


Stephanie Maureena on 27 December, 2008 at 11:21 pm #

I think it depends on what kind of person you are and maybe what kinda ppl you hang out with and the influence they have.
Also dont think just cuz u been with a guy for years that you feel its “”time”". ( i did that mistake & we broke up anyways) especially if you are still a teenager.


Chantel on 28 December, 2008 at 10:45 pm #

I dont think it is but people use the excuse that it is to cover their mistake up of having *** so young. People want you to think *** is okay at the age we’re right now and I’m only 15. Yet *** isnt and I’m not saying we should wait to have *** until we’re married. I’m saying we should wait to have *** when we are older and when it means something and more than something to do to pass the time. *** as a teenager will never mean love even how much you think it does. Keeping your mind clean and free of the crap we are told today will help us out in the long run. Yeah I thought about what would it be like with my boyfriend but then I think of the consequences and they always rule over the choice of having ***. I don’t want to become pregnant, I don’t want to have an std, I want *** to mean something, I want *** to mean love, and I want it with someone who will love me like I love them. Teenagers will just have *** with you and leave you maybe have *** then wait for a few more months then their gone.

keeping your mind free and open of the shiit we’re fed through our minds of how we’re suppose to be is what we need to do and dont let your hormones get the best of you

and im not a crazy teen im well like and im still
a virgin and very happy, right now I don’t care about sex
atleast not right now and hopefully not until awhile


Misz Loca on 31 December, 2008 at 11:02 pm #

nah i don’t think it’s that hard
=D

if a person really wanted to remain a virgin
they would remain one

it’s only as hard as one makes it to be / it’s only as easy as one makes it


Hat on a Cat (Akizakura Hanashi) on 1 January, 2009 at 3:05 pm #

Not at all, actually. I’ve never even had a boyfriend and it doesn’t really bother me.


I ♥ David Archuleta on 1 January, 2009 at 11:08 pm #

i think if you stay strong it will be fine just dont ***** under peer pressure.


Horselover<3 on 1 January, 2009 at 11:33 pm #

I don’t know why they say that.


Bum H on 3 January, 2009 at 12:44 pm #

No.
As long as you know how to say no :-) And don’t get really drunk or take drugs that make you ‘loved up’
Haha.
Dont worry about it


Amanda:] on 6 January, 2009 at 1:29 am #

Not if you can remain strong and keep your dignity. I know girls who have or almost have. Its ridiculous considering we are only fourteen!


I ♥ Purple! on 8 January, 2009 at 7:22 am #

It’s actually not even hard for me.


coxy294 on 10 January, 2009 at 5:24 pm #

thers a lots of other things u can do besides *** XD


xosimplysundayox on 12 January, 2009 at 3:33 pm #

not hard. its not that hard as long as you self control


insert_ nickname_ here! on 13 January, 2009 at 11:14 pm #

I think it is tough. There are many undue and immense pressures by today’s society that can bear a heay burden on young people. Older people tend to look back on their teenage lives as something that is constantly good. However, in reality, many teenagers have to cope with great pressure from friends, themselves and from society.

Thankfully, there are some safegfuards that will help:

Keeping close to your family. Normaly, they are the ones who really love you the most (apart from God). And although at times young people may well think, with some fairness, that adults can appear to be at times aloof, and hard to communicate with, neverthless, it is really comforting and beneficial for a family to stick together with openess between one another. So I advise the best way to help with the demands and pressure for not just *** but all areas of significance within the teenage life experience is to share it with your Mom and dad. Your mum and dad may not have all the answers, but talking to the very persons who really love you will strengthen you. Of course, I’m not suggesting that we all should not be allowed to have our own personal time, space and secrets, we all need are personel space. However, having are own personel time and space does not prevent us from being open and honest to our family about our MAIN and important activities, i.e.’ who your ‘boyfriend is’.. ‘Where you are going out’.. ‘who are your friends’. It is essential to share this information in trust, as it helps too add a sence of protection and allows experianced council to be open on certain important areas of your life for your best interests. Just to clarify this again… it doesn’t mean you HAVE to tell your parent EVERY area and aspect of your life in an unbearing and out of balaced way, because again we are all entitled to our personnel life. However, what it does mean, is that you are under the God given and blessed protection of your parents and are being cared for by the ones who really love you the most (normaly a persons parents or leagl guardians) and this will enevtably leave you less open to being in dangerous and undesirable situations with people who are not interested in knowing about you, they are only interested in what they can get out of you.(sorry to be blunt).

The main thing to do is Abide in Him.

We do this by Studying God’s word, (God will speak to you in His time and reassure you and bless you.) Keeping an active prayer life is essential. I recommend prayer in the morning. Start it just 10 minutes after you have a wash in the morning. It will bless and strengthen you no end. *** before marriage is a very serious sin and people who knowingly walk in such sins have no access to God. Indeed the sexual immoral, shall not inherit the Kingdom of God. When a Christian falls into such deliberate and sustained sin it separates them from God… they must quickly turn in meaningful repentance to the one who loves you and gave His all, and not to delay, but immediately turn to Jesus and seek Him. He is altogether wonderful and will forgive any truly repentant heart.

Finally, I would say only have true Christian Boyfriends

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Alys =] on 15 January, 2009 at 8:33 pm #

I dont think its hard.
Its called self-control.


JesusFreak! on 17 January, 2009 at 8:55 pm #

well different for guys but its still not that bad.


blondehorse777 on 20 January, 2009 at 11:06 pm #

with the pressure of the world and all the advertisements on *** and how fun it ‘looks’ it is hard to stay a virgin now a days… but i wish i still was becuz u have something i dont… you kno you could be like me in 5mins but i can never be like you again becuz i already gave it up… this may sound chessy but if you wait til ur husband it will make your trust and love that much stronger… i dont want to sound like a hypocrite but dont have *** please wait… and if u do make sure u dont regret it


mark anthony on 27 January, 2009 at 5:58 am #

if u were having a relationship right now, be sure that you love each other.. not for the reason of having *** bcoz sometimes the word LOVE was being used to have ***.. just remember the taught that if u truly love that person u will accept him/her even ur not having *** coz loving a person is not about *** is about caring for each other and respect and always love ur partner as you love your parents.

There’s nothing wrong about being a virgin.. and take note that a sin is PLEASURABLE.anyone may be a victim of it!so be careful..

GOD BLESS to those who will read this and for also the people who stay’s virgin and happy. e-mail me if u want mark_tadina0616@yahoo.com.ph from phils.


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