call the Steve wilkos show.
IM NOT KIDDING.
im sorry i dont have any to list but nowadays most bootcamps are not free but u can possibly get a scholarship to some i expect
family court, a pins petition ( person in need of services ) then the court gets involved, if they don’t straighten you wont have to worry about paying for it the court will take care of it.
the police station and parole officers should know of places.
First: How on Earth are you going to send a person somewhere without their agreement if they are older than 5yo?
Second: Do you really think he will ever talk to you again, let alone respect you, if you send him to a boot camp?
Third: Do you really think after you missed to teach him the first years, he will get the idea now? The brain stops its development at age 20-21. Until then it develops really slow, while the first years are the fast development when you have to teach the child everything. You are late. And your teenager may be actually very responsible, just not with you.
Giving up and palming your child off on someone else, is a great way to teach responsibility.